tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420609923170259332024-03-07T22:19:33.906-08:00Life of Cyndi *The Daily DevotionalCynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-48157312035962625452012-05-07T20:26:00.000-07:002012-05-07T20:26:00.282-07:00Parenting- Day 81<b>1 John 5:14-15</b><br />
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<span class="verse" id="1John_5_14"><strong class="verseno">14</strong> And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him.</span><span class="verse" id="1John_5_15"><strong class="verseno"> 15</strong> And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for.</span><br />
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<b>ANSWERS TO PRAYER</b></div>
<br />
Parenting
tests this passage like few other experiences. Because we love our
children, we assume we know what is best for them. We pray for God to
honor our plans and are shocked when God sometimes leads us down a more
difficult path, with testing and pain.<br />
<br />
For me, the turning point
came when I realized I was looking at God as a "cosmic vending machine."
When I prayed, I somehow felt He was obligated to comply on my terms.
Then, a friend gave me a simple guide that changed my perspective on
prayer. He said, "Prayer is asking God to align you with His will,
rather than asking Him to be aligned with yours."<br />
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God knows what
you and your children really need. When we pray, He is at work answering
those prayers, but in a way that suits Him and His work. Faith trusts
the wisdom of His answer, even when His answer is different from what we
expect.<br />
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To truly pray for God's will to be done, we must trust that His will is what's best for our family.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_17_12"><strong class="verseno">12</strong> As he entered a village there, ten lepers stood at a distance, </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_13"><strong class="verseno">13</strong> crying out, “Jesus, Master, have mercy on us!” </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_14"><strong class="verseno">14</strong> He looked at them and said, “Go show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went, they were cleansed of their leprosy. </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_15"><strong class="verseno">15</strong> One of them, when he saw that he was healed, came back to Jesus, shouting, “Praise God!”</span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_16"><strong class="verseno"> 16</strong> He fell to the ground at Jesus’ feet, thanking him for what he had done. This man was a Samaritan. </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_17"><strong class="verseno">17</strong> Jesus asked, “Didn’t I heal ten men? Where are the other nine? </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_18"><strong class="verseno">18</strong> Has no one returned to give glory to God except this foreigner?” </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_17_19"><strong class="verseno">19</strong> And Jesus said to the man, “Stand up and go. Your faith has healed you.”</span><br />
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<b>GRATITUDE FOR BLESSINGS</b></div>
<br />
Reading
this story, we are tempted to judge the "ungrateful nine". But, how
often do we take our own blessings for granted and fail to thank the
Lord? Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his
wonderful deeds for men (Ps 107:15). Many times, we enjoy the gifts but
forget to thank the Giver. We are quick to pray in times of trouble, but
slow to praise when things are going great.<br />
<br />
Be consistent in
turning to God in both trial and triumph. Show your kids a grateful
heart and an understanding of the Source of all good things (James
1:17).<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_17_3"><strong class="verseno">3</strong> So watch yourselves!</span><br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_17_3">“If another believer sins, rebuke that person; then if there is repentance, forgive.</span><br />
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FORGIVING BY FAITH<br />
<br />
The
apostles' response to this teaching is very interesting. I doubt they
were having trouble with rebuke; most people are good at that. But,
forgiveness is another matter — we can find it very hard to forgive
those who have caused us pain, especially if it's someone we loved and
trusted. Our relationship with our kids makes us especially vulnerable.<br />
<br />
Notice
that the apostles' request was for the faith to forgive, rather than
for more love. Although love is essential, real forgiveness requires
faith. It is not natural. It takes a living faith to obey Christ and
forgive others. When we are obedient and forgive, we trust God to take
care of the consequences, handle any misunderstandings, and work
everything out for His glory (Rom 8:28).<br />
<br />
Love motivates us to forgive, but faith activates forgiveness so God can use it to work blessings in the lives of His people.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Gal_6_1"><strong class="verseno">1</strong> Dear
brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you
who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the
right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation
yourself. </span><span class="verse" id="Gal_6_2"><strong class="verseno">2</strong> Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.</span><br />
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<b>DISCIPLINE WITH EMPATHY</b></div>
<br />
Empathy
is harder for some of us than for others. Learning to be more
empathetic with our children may require taking some time to remember
what it was like when we were their age. Walking in their little shoes
can help us understand why they do what they do. Sometimes we forget we
were children once, too.<br />
<br />
Interestingly we may find the things we
struggled with at their age cause us the most anxiety in parenting. We
may be frustrated when the same issues reappear in our children. This
remembrance can have two outcomes — we can anxiously step in to fix the
problem, which usually results in an overblown response that makes the
situation worse. Or we can remember our experiences and use them to
relate to our kids. God may be using your child's struggles to sanctify
both of you.<br />
<br />
When your child's struggle causes you extraordinary anxiety, be alert — God may be teaching both of you.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="2Cor_8_20"><strong class="verseno">20</strong> We are traveling together to guard against any criticism for the way we are handling this generous gift.</span><span class="verse" id="2Cor_8_21"><strong class="verseno"> 21</strong> We are careful to be honorable before the Lord, but we also want everyone else to see that we are honorable.</span><br />
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<span class="verse" id="2Cor_8_21"></span><b>THE EXAMPLE OF SPENDING</b></div>
<br />
The
Macedonians had given money to Paul to give to the believers in
Jerusalem. In this passage Paul acknowledges the importance of spending
that money responsibly. He knew men were watching and he wanted to be
sure his actions were above reproach.<br />
<br />
Think about how this applies
to parenting. Your kids see practical demonstrations of faith when they
see you studying the Bible or praying. But, they are also watching and
learning from the way you spend your money. You may not realize what a
powerful testimony your spending can be and how much it reveals the
things you treasure. "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be
also" (Matt 6:21). Take some time to pray and consider what your
lifestyle and spending communicates to your kids.<br />
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Your faith is prominently displayed by the way you spend the wealth God has given you.<br />
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<br />Cynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-32256681561444942062012-05-02T17:48:00.003-07:002012-05-02T17:48:46.340-07:00Parenting- Day 76<b>Psalm 27:13-14<strong class="verseno"> </strong></b><br />
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<strong class="verseno">13</strong> Yet I am confident I will see the LORD’s goodness<span class="verse" id="Ps_27_13"> while I am here in the land of the living. </span><strong class="verseno">14</strong> Wait patiently for the LORD. Be brave and courageous.<span class="verse" id="Ps_27_14"> Yes, wait patiently for the LORD.</span><br />
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<b>WAIT</b></div>
<br />
Twenty-four
hours a day. Seven days a week. We are constantly called to make
parenting decisions on the fly. The pressure can be overwhelming. In the
process, our nerves and faith are tested. Perhaps this passage is most
applicable when demands are greatest. It takes courage to wait on the
Lord when your mind is screaming to "do something!" But until God has
strengthened your heart, your actions can be impulsive and ineffective.
Instead of relying on your own snap judgments, trust in the goodness of
God and wait for His guidance. He will supply you with the strength and
wisdom you need (Heb 13:20-21).<br />
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Under pressure, be patient and wait for the Lord to strengthen your heart and guide your actions.<br />
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<br />Cynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-76652237743422087942012-05-01T17:46:00.000-07:002012-05-02T17:46:22.829-07:00Parenting- Day 75Luke 12:36-37<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_36"><strong class="verseno"> </strong></span><br />
<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_36"><strong class="verseno"> </strong></span><span class="verse" id="Luke_12_36"><strong class="verseno"> </strong></span><br />
<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_36"><strong class="verseno">36</strong> as
though you were waiting for your master to return from the wedding
feast. Then you will be ready to open the door and let him in the moment
he arrives and knocks.</span><span class="verse" id="Luke_12_37"><strong class="verseno">37</strong> The
servants who are ready and waiting for his return will be rewarded. I
tell you the truth, he himself will seat them, put on an apron, and
serve them as they sit and eat!</span><br />
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<br />
ANTICIPATING CHRIST'S RETURN<br />
<br />
Since
Jewish weddings were held at night, a bridegroom's servants would
anxiously wait for their master to come home. They wanted to be ready so
they didn't keep the new husband and his bride waiting at the door.
Jesus used a parable to illustrate how believers should likewise
enthusiastically anticipate and prepare for His return.<br />
<br />
As we
raise our kids, it is easy to focus on the here and now rather than the
things of heaven. The issues of the moment — potty training, homework,
being in the starting lineup, or choosing a college can cause us to lose
sight of our real purpose on earth. Instead of preparing for our
Master's return, we often choose to serve ourselves instead.<br />
<br />
When
we live with our eyes on the eternal, it is more difficult for the
things of the world to ensnare us. Show your kids an example of the
freedom that comes when we filter our experiences through an eternal
perspective.<br />
<br />
Be an example of someone serving the Lord and waiting anxiously for His return.<br />
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<br />Cynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-1800872617905314522012-04-30T21:49:00.000-07:002012-05-01T21:49:42.455-07:00Parenting- Day 74<b>Luke 12:25-26<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_25"><b class="verseno"> </b></span></b><br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_25"><b class="verseno">25</b> <span class="vchrist">And which of you with taking thought can add to his stature one cubit?</span></span><span class="verse" id="Luke_12_26"><b class="verseno"> 26</b> <span class="vchrist">If ye then be not able to do that thing which is least, why take ye thought for the rest?</span></span><span class="verse" id="Luke_12_26"></span><br />
<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_26"></span><br />
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<b>WORRY</b></div>
<br />
Do you
worry? Most of us do, and yet Jesus tells us very clearly we have
nothing to worry about. In fact, He tells us it is counterproductive! We
don't need to worry because we know how our story will end. If our hope
is assured (see Heb 11:1), we shouldn't be concerned about the sorrows
of today or tomorrow. "Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow,"
said Corrie Ten Boom; "it empties today of its strength."<br />
<br />
How do
we inoculate ourselves against worry? The answer is faith. When our
hearts are fixed on God, we see life from an eternal viewpoint. We are
able to put God's goals first. The question we must keep asking is,
"Where is my heart?" If my heart is fixed on worldly things, I will
always worry because the world's treasures are uncertain. If my heart is
fixed on God, I will rest in His power and strength.<br />
<br />
Great faith can cancel out worry.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_2"><strong class="verseno">2</strong> The time is coming when everything that is covered up will be revealed, and all that is secret will be made known to all.</span><br />
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<b>HYPOCRISY</b></div>
<br />
How
often does fear drive you to do something you ought not to do? Fear can
be driven by a need for approval from others, a need for control, envy
of another lifestyle, or concern about being left behind by your peer
group's march to "success." These fears are summed up in the concept of
"fear of man."<br />
<br />
The Bible tells us fear of man will prove to be a
snare because it is a substitute for fear of God. When we are concerned
with our standing before men, we strive for worldly things rather than
Godly ones. That striving is not hidden from God. He sees our hearts and
knows the fear that motivates us. We may try to justify our efforts to
gain approval, control, or a better lifestyle as advancements to be used
for God's work, but He knows the real fear that motivates us.<br />
<br />
The remedy for hypocrisy is to fear God alone.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_12_2"> </span>Cynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-65927273165051098802012-04-28T08:00:00.000-07:002012-04-28T22:04:00.821-07:00Parenting- Day 72<b>Luke 11:1-2</b><br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_11_1"><b class="verseno">1</b> Once
Jesus was in a certain place praying. As he finished, one of his
disciples came to him and said, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John
taught his disciples.” </span><span class="verse" id="Luke_11_2"><b class="verseno">2</b> Jesus said, “This is how you should pray:</span><br />
<br />
<span class="verse" id="Luke_11_2">“Father, may your name be kept holy. May your Kingdom come soon.</span><br />
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<b>THE NECESSITY OF PRAYER</b></div>
<br />
Jesus'
disciples were given the power to do miracles, but they recognized the
source of real power was prayer. They knew Jesus and John the Baptist
were men of prayer. Even they had a need to pray to accomplish the great
tasks the Father had for them.<br />
<br />
Jesus taught them the Lord's
Prayer. He showed them true prayer is not asking for man's will to be
accomplished, but rather aligning yourself with God's will to bring His
Kingdom's power and strength to bear on earth's problems. He promised
God would answer prayers offered in that spirit and for that purpose.<br />
<br />
Phillips
Brooks said prayer is not overcoming God's reluctance; it is laying
hold of His highest willingness. Prayer is not an attempt to change
God's mind, but to get ourselves to the place where He can trust us with
the answer.<br />
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Pray for God's will to be done in your family, and God will answer your prayer.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_10_20"><b class="verseno">20</b> But don’t rejoice because evil spirits obey you; rejoice because your names are registered in heaven.”</span><br />
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<b>THE GREATEST GIFT</b></div>
<br />
Christ
sent 70 disciples out into Judea and they did great miracles in His
name, winning many to Him. They came back rejoicing in what God had
done. Imagine Jesus meeting and celebrating with them for the work they
had done. But, there was real potential for spiritual pride.<br />
<br />
While
Jesus wanted to celebrate their victories, he added the perspective
that, as great as their victories were, an even greater cause for
celebration was their own salvation. He reminded them that what was done
for them was even greater than the work they accomplished.<br />
<br />
It
occurred to me that Jesus wasn't trying to lessen their accomplishments;
He was celebrating with them a reward much greater than even their
tremendous effort deserved. Their greatest reward was something they
could not earn.<br />
<br />
We can get caught up in the work ethic of our
culture, and there's nothing wrong with hard work. But, we need to
remind ourselves and our kids the greatest gift is free.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Mark_6_30"><b class="verseno">30</b> The apostles returned to Jesus from their ministry tour and told him all they had done and taught.</span><span class="verse" id="Mark_6_31"><b class="verseno">31</b> Then
Jesus said, “Let’s go off by ourselves to a quiet place and rest
awhile.” He said this because there were so many people coming and going
that Jesus and his apostles didn’t even have time to eat.</span><br />
<span class="verse" id="Mark_6_31"> </span><span class="verse" id="Mark_6_31"> </span><br />
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<span class="verse" id="Mark_6_31"></span><span class="verse" id="Mark_6_31"></span><b>NEED FOR REST</b></div>
<br />
Christ
sent the disciples out in two's on their first mission trip to preach
the kingdom of God and to cast out demons and heal the sick. Their trips
were hugely successful, and they returned to report what had happened.
The people around apparently were aware of their success as well because
they were besieged by requests for their time, so much that they had no
time even to eat!<br />
<br />
Imagine the feeling — flushed with success,
with people clamoring for your attention and begging for a little of
your time. It had to feel pretty good to be needed like that. Yet Jesus
recognized boundaries were necessary or the disciples were going to be
used up in a hurry. They needed time to rest.<br />
<br />
You are no
different. Your kids may demand every minute of your time and it may
feel pretty good to be needed that much. But you must be aware that you
are limited in energy and you will be no good to anyone if you don't get
some rest now and then.<br />
<br />
Taking time to rest and revitalize is as important to your kids as it is to you.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Mark_6_31"></span><br />
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<span class="verse" id="Mark_9_28"><strong class="verseno">28</strong> And when he was come into the house, his disciples asked him privately, Why could not we cast him out?</span><span class="verse" id="Mark_9_29"><strong class="verseno"> 29</strong> And he said unto them, <span class="vchrist">This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting.</span></span><br />
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<b> SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINE</b></div>
<br />
After
the Transfiguration, Jesus, James, John and Peter came down the
mountain. A dad met them, with his son who was possessed by a vicious
demon. The other nine disciples had attempted to cast the demon out
without success. Jesus rebuked the demon and cast it out of the boy,
returning him to his father.<br />
<br />
These nine disciples had just
returned from their first successful mission of preaching and healing,
yet they were unable to cast out this one demon. Why? Perhaps, because
they had neglected the spiritual disciplines of fasting and prayer. When
Jesus explained the failure as a lack of prayer, it must have been very
humbling.<br />
<br />
Spiritual discipline is necessary for all aspects of
life, and particularly for parenting. The challenge of raising kids
demands you turn to God each day and give Him the best of your time. How
else can you hear His wisdom?<br />
<br />
Consistent spiritual discipline prepares you for the challenges of parenting.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Luke_7_41"><b class="verseno">41</b> Then Jesus told him this story: “A man loaned money to two people—500 pieces of silver to one and 50 pieces to the other.</span><span class="verse" id="Luke_7_42"><b class="verseno">42</b> But
neither of them could repay him, so he kindly forgave them both,
canceling their debts. Who do you suppose loved him more after that?” </span><b class="verseno">43</b> Simon answered, “I suppose the one for whom he canceled the larger debt.”<br />
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<b><span class="verse" id="Luke_7_43"> </span>JOY IN TRIALS, PAIN IN TRIUMPHS </b></div>
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Jesus
told this parable at a dinner hosted by a Pharisee. A "sinful" woman
had pushed her way to the feet of Jesus, crying, wiping His feet with
her hair and pouring perfume on His feet to the disgust of the guests.
Even more amazing to the gathered guests, Jesus welcomed her, recognized
her faith and forgave her sins.</div>
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Jesus compared the Pharisee and
the sinful woman. Both needed forgiveness, but only one recognized her
need. Her sins were overt and obvious, and she had nowhere to turn but
the Savior. His sins were covert and hidden from all but God. His
success led him to be prideful and oblivious to his great need for a
Savior.<br />
Be careful with a compliant child. It is tempting to
forego a consequence because, "She is always so good!" But, we all need
some failure to recognize our need for grace. Don't let your child be
carried away from God by his triumphs.</div>
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<br />
<span class="verse" id="Gen_22_10"><strong class="verseno">10</strong> And Abraham picked up the knife to kill his son as a sacrifice.</span><span class="verse" id="Gen_22_11"><strong class="verseno">11</strong> At that moment the angel of the LORD called to him from heaven, “Abraham! Abraham!”</span><br />
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<span class="verse" id="Gen_22_11">“</span><span class="verse" id="Gen_22_11">Yes,” Abraham replied. “Here I am!”</span><br />
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<b>SACRIFICE</b></div>
<br />
We
marvel at Abraham's obedience when the cost was so high. But many of us
are willing to sacrifice our children too — not on an altar — but to
the expectations of this world. This sacrifice requires no knife, but is
executed in subtle day-to-day compromises. Overcrowded schedules that
squeeze out time for relationships. Messages communicating significance
in a child's "success." Pressuring kids to perform because we see them
as reflections of ourselves. Investing our time and money chasing after
power, beauty, and fame.<br />
<br />
We are bombarded with false messages
defining our worth and the worth of our children by worldly standards.
Like Abraham, God is calling us to bring this sacrifice to a halt. But
we must look past the temporal and see with eternal eyes. We must choose
to worship the Creator instead of the creation.<br />
<br />
Surrender your kids to God and spend the time necessary to uncover His plan for their lives.<br />
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<b> </b><strong class="verseno"> </strong><br />
<strong class="verseno">10</strong> Then
the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives
will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as
you learn to know God better and better.<span class="verse" id="Col_1_11"><strong class="verseno"> </strong></span><span class="verse" id="Col_1_11"><strong class="verseno">11</strong> We
also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so
you will have all the endurance and patience you need. May you be filled
with joy,</span><br />
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<b>ENDURANCE AND PATIENCE</b></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
Some
parents are blessed with compliant children who always want to please
mom and dad. Others have kids who are prone to testing the boundaries.
This constant rebellion can push a parent to the brink of their patience
and endurance.<br />
<br />
Thankfully, you can turn to your Heavenly Father.
He knows what you're going through because He's experienced countless
acts of rebellion from all of his children but one. God's promise is to
strengthen you with His power "so that you might have great endurance
and patience".<br />
<br />
God gives parents of rebellious children the patience and endurance they need. Ask!<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Eph_4_26"><b class="verseno">26</b> And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry,</span><span class="verse" id="Eph_4_27"><b class="verseno">27</b> for anger gives a foothold to the devil.</span><br />
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<b>ANGER</b></div>
<br />
Anger
is not always wrong, but what we do with our anger determines whether we
are acting righteously or sinfully. We should be angered by acts of
ungodliness, unrighteousness, injustice, and inequity. These things
anger God as well.<br />
<br />
But if you are angry because someone has
disturbed your pride, self-sufficiency, status, prestige, or power, your
reaction will likely be sinful. And sinful anger is often expressed in
harshness, cruelty, bitterness, and a lack of control.<br />
<br />
We must
examine our hearts when our kids make us angry. If it is righteous
anger, let it motivate you to take action and deliver consequences. Sin
needs to be addressed, and we honor God by delivering those consequences
with empathy and love. If it is sinful anger, pray for the courage to
confess it, repent, and resolve it.<br />
<br />
Examine your anger to determine the motives behind it.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Ps_119_67"><b class="verseno">67</b> I used to wander off until you disciplined me; but now I closely follow your word.</span><br />
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<b>THE VALUE OF TRIALS</b></div>
<br />
This
psalmist was ridiculed and persecuted for his faith by people of higher
authority and position than him, but he remained strong by diligently
studying God's Word. In fact, he tells us the persecution or
"affliction" was necessary to keep him from straying. "It was good ...
to be afflicted so that I might learn your decrees."<br />
<br />
When we are
successful, we tend to want to take personal credit. When we face
trials, however, we tend to turn to God for answers. How could this
happen? Why me? What did I do wrong? If seeking those answers causes you
to turn to Bible study and prayer, you may have part of your answer.
Trials teach so much better than triumphs. Perhaps that is why Paul
urges us to "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials
of many kinds," (James 1:2).<br />
<br />
Trials can motivate us to seek God's truth and wisdom.<br />
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<br />
<span class="verse" id="2Tim_3_14"><strong class="verseno">14</strong> But
you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know
they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you.</span><span class="verse" id="2Tim_3_15"><strong class="verseno">15</strong> You
have been taught the holy Scriptures from childhood, and they have
given you the wisdom to receive the salvation that comes by trusting in
Christ Jesus.</span><br />
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<b>BIBLE STUDY FOR KIDS</b></div>
<br />
Timothy
was raised in a godly home by a mother and grandmother who taught him
the Scriptures. He was surrounded by the Word "from infancy" in
preparation for the time when Paul would lead him to salvation through
Christ. This early immersion in the Word of God prepared him for the
message of Jesus.<br />
<br />
It's never too early for your kids to start
learning the Bible. There are excellent storybooks with pictures for the
very young and more sophisticated versions for older kids. Eventually
they can graduate to owning a Bible of their own. In fact the early
years are some of the most productive, because your children will be
excited to learn from you. Make an effort to lovingly introduce
Scripture when your kids are young. This time doesn't last forever, and
it is a lot harder to do when they get into the teenage years.<br />
<br />
It is never too early to start a Bible study with your kids.<br />
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<br />
<span class="verse" id="Rom_12_1"><strong class="verseno">1</strong> And
so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to
God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy
sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to
worship him.</span><span class="verse" id="Rom_12_2"><strong class="verseno">2</strong> Don’t
copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you
into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to
know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.</span><br />
<br />
<br />
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<b>GOD'S MERCY</b></div>
<br />
The
parenting journey is full of mistakes. We will never be perfect. But,
we can be comforted by the fact that God knows us, He knows the mistakes
we make, and He loves us just the same. He doesn't expect perfection.<br />
<br />
God
expects us to offer our parenting as an act of worship. When we renew
our minds by internalizing His truth, and parent according to His plan
for success, He is pleased. You know what this is like — when your child
presented you with a project they made you hung it on your wall or
refrigerator because it represented their love for you. It wasn't the
artistic excellence you prized, but the motivation behind it. It is no
different for God.<br />
<br />
Renew your mind and parent your kids as a spiritual act of worship to please God.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="Rom_12_2"> </span><span class="verse" id="Rom_12_2"> </span>Cynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-83113875959843365132012-04-17T07:00:00.000-07:002012-04-19T22:08:19.603-07:00Parenting- Day 61<div __gwt_cell="cell-gwt-uid-718" style="outline-style: none;">
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<span class="verse" id="1Sam_8_1"><b class="verseno">1</b> As Samuel grew old, he appointed his sons to be judges over Israel.</span><span class="verse" id="1Sam_8_2"><b class="verseno"> 2</b> Joel and Abijah, his oldest sons, held court in Beersheba.</span><span class="verse" id="1Sam_8_3"><b class="verseno"> 3</b> But they were not like their father, for they were greedy for money. They accepted bribes and perverted justice.</span></div>
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<b><span class="verse" id="1Sam_8_3"></span><span class="verse" id="1Sam_8_3"></span><span style="font-size: large;">NO GUARANTEES</span></b></div>
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The
godliest parents in the world are not guaranteed godly children. Why?
Because children are free will creatures living in a fallen world, just
like their parents. They have the choice to follow our example and the
instruction we give them, or not. All would agree that the prophet
Samuel walked with God as faithfully as any man. Yet his children turned
out so poorly the people demanded a king to replace them as judges. God
honored Samuel's faithfulness in many ways, but his example was not
reflected in the choices of his children.</div>
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Parenting is a journey
with an uncertain destination. We can't count on a good result just
because we are faithful. There is no formula that will assure you your
children will follow Jesus. You must place your trust in God, surrender
your children to Him, follow God's will the best you can, and leave the
results to Him.</div>
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You must trust the result of your parenting to God.<br />
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<br />
<span class="verse" id="1Tim_4_16"><b class="verseno">16</b> Keep
a close watch on how you live and on your teaching. Stay true to what
is right for the sake of your own salvation and the salvation of those
who hear you.</span><br />
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<b>DISCIPLINE IS AN EXAMPLE</b></div>
<br />
Being
prepared for godly parenting requires a close, daily walk with God.
After all, He is the father of all mankind. He has had billions of
children! And He has recorded his thoughts and experiences as an example
for our parenting journey. Read the Bible through the lens of
parenting, and you will be amazed at the wealth of knowledge it
contains.<br />
<br />
In this passage Paul told Timothy he needed to be
disciplined in his life before he could be effective in the lives of
others. Later he told him where the ultimate example is found, "All
Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking,
correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be
thoroughly equipped for every good work" (2 Tim 3:16-17 NIV).<br />
<br />
Bible study helps you emulate God and lets His wisdom shine through you.<br />
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<br />
<span class="verse" id="1Tim_1_16"><b class="verseno">16</b> But
God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime
example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others
will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal
life.</span><br />
<br />
<br />
<div style="text-align: center;">
<b>BEING THE ULTIMATE EXAMPLE</b></div>
<br />
Kids
learn some of the most important lessons by watching the most
influential people in their lives — their parents. They learn by
watching your example in good times and bad. And in the bad times, when
you act with anger, ridicule, condescension, selfishness, etc, you will
have an extra opportunity to model the humility that results from
confession and repentance, and the mercy and grace that comes from being
a child of God.<br />
<br />
As your children grow, they will see you are not
perfect. Hopefully they will seek the source of perfection in the only
place it can be found, God. You can show them the way by demonstrating
that your response to imperfections is to present them to God with a
grateful heart, knowing His mercy and grace will wipe the slate clean.
What an opportunity to communicate the gospel message to your kids in a
practical, real-life manner!<br />
<br />
Be an example of God's patience, mercy, and grace. Your kids are watching.<br />
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<span class="verse" id="1Tim_1_16"> </span><b> </b>Cynthiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08158969265633714044noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-642060992317025933.post-35169196012084242382012-04-13T21:24:00.000-07:002012-04-13T21:24:00.419-07:00Parenting- Day 57<b>Colossians 3:1-2</b><br />
<br />
<span class="verse" id="Col_3_1"><strong class="verseno">1</strong> Since
you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the
realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s
right hand.</span><span class="verse" id="Col_3_2"><strong class="verseno">2</strong> Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth.</span><br />
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<b>LOOKING HEAVENWARD</b></div>
<br />
In
parenting our discontent and pride can reveal areas where we get caught
up in the "things that are on earth." We can be competitive when we
compare our children to other kids. We feel validated when they are the
star athlete or an academic whiz, but we get upset when they are
overlooked or unmotivated. We find ourselves buying into the value
system of other parents.<br />
<br />
How can we set our minds on things above?
Start the day by praising God. Ask Him to reveal your motivations.
Recognize where you are seeking the approval of others over the approval
of God. Seek His wisdom through Bible study and prayer. God provides
the resources, but we "set our minds on things above" when we
incorporate them into our parenting.<br />
<br />
Make a conscious effort each day to focus on what is eternally important.<br />
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<br />
<span class="verse" id="1Thess_5_14"><strong class="verseno">14</strong> Brothers
and sisters, we urge you to warn those who are lazy. Encourage those
who are timid. Take tender care of those who are weak. Be patient with
everyone.</span><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;">
<b>FLEXIBILITY</b></div>
<br />
Each
of our children is unique. Some like lots of activities; others prefer
time alone. Some are compliant; others constantly test the limits. Some
have thick skins; others are easily offended. And each child will change
over the years. As a result our parenting approach depends on knowing
each child and responding according to his unique personality.<br />
<br />
For
the undisciplined or rebellious child, admonishment is needed. You will
be challenged to deliver consequences consistently and empathetically.<br />
<br />
For
the discouraged child who is tempted to withdraw, comfort and
encouragement are necessary. Learn to listen to their concerns and
reflect their feelings back to them as you communicate confidence in
their abilities.<br />
<br />
A weak child needs help. Maybe he tends toward
adherence to "the rules" without understanding there are principles
behind the rules. Spiritual wisdom can be passed along by helping the
child explore the reasons for his actions.<br />
<br />
Regardless of the
personality type, God asks us to be patient. God wants us to "know" each
child and adapt our parenting style to each particular personality.<br />
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